He's usually very happy and an encourager, but I'm sad to say that I haven't seen that side of him much lately. As I've been thinking about his behavior and seeking wisdom from God as to how to change it, this verse came to mind.
"Don't you see how wonderfully kind, tolerant, and patient God is with you? Does this mean nothing to you? Can't you see that his kindness is intended to turn you from your sin?" Romans 2:4
God's kindness leads to our repentance. If God's kindness draws us to repentance, shouldn't mine draw my own son? So today, with this verse fresh in my mind, I decided to try something different. Instead of fussing at Jonathan and punishing him with a swat on the rear, time out or no game time, I decided to give him a hug. Every time he disobeyed me or reacted harshly toward someone, I hugged the little guy and I told him I loved him and I whispered the correction in his ear. I even got the person he offended to hug him. And guess what...He's had the best day, behavior wise, that he's had in many days.
Ashley
how refreshing! I struggle with my 3 year old Caleb, who can be so sweet, cuddly and funny, but also tries my patience every day with disobedience, strong will and just plain old rough 3 year old boy behavior! I feel like I'm always fussing, yelling, getting on to him, etc. I like your plan instead!
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